as I start my new lifestyle with an up coming divorce as a single parent with 2 teenage boys, I have found my self with some free time on weekends. My boys are busy with college classes,music, sports and their friends so their are not home as much. I have not found myself ready for dating again  since my focus has been on my boys adjustment to the changes,trying to work extra hours( only have a part time job and need full time) so I thought that meeting new girlfriends would better suit my time. I have no family in the area since my ex husband was in the military and we were stationed here before his retirement and the boys were in high school and didn't want to move them again. I do travel back to Washington state yearly or more to see my family and friends.